Saturday, October 6, 2018

What the Kavanaugh Spectacle says about Our Nation

This afternoon, the long-awaited vote on the Honorable Brett Kavanaugh finally happened. I must say I am relieved that this whole process is coming to an end, but I am still reeling over the things I have seen and heard these last few weeks. I have prayed often for the Kavanaugh family. I have also prayed for  Christy Ford. Whatever her story, both of them have been used as pawns in a nasty, partisan game where there are no rules and the losers are the American people.

I have made the intentional decision to try not to post about politics over the last few years. Especially via Facebook. My reasons are both practical and spiritual. For one, it's a terrible forum for reasonable discourse. It is far too brief, far too easy to be misunderstood,  and it separates friends. We all have our opinions, and when frustration over a highly divisive issue sets in,  I can forget to "love mercy" pretty quickly. My faith in the Lord and trust in His ultimate judgment plays a much deeper factor in my life than who is in public office. Although I frequently ask the Lord to slap a hand over my mouth, sometimes I believe the right thing to do is to speak up. Blogs are better. For one, you can be more thorough; for another, no one reads them, anyway ;).

I've seen many angry posts this week. Some have been from Kavanaugh supporters. Some have been from Ford supporters. Either way, they showed a passionate support and a desire for justice. We are each going to believe what we choose to believe. As finite human beings, none of us know 100% where the truth lies, so we can choose to go with our feelings or with the evidence. People who have been hurt understandably feel hurt, and 7 FBI probes or not, they are transferring those feelings onto Kavanaugh. More often, though, I saw angry people who were just angry people. They admitted the sexual allegations against him weren't solid, but they don't care one way or the other. They just don't like the man. More specifically, they don't like his ideology. And this anger led to ruthless chiding, merciless jokes, and bogus excuses to attack his character and deem him "unworthy" to be a Justice, even as he sat crying after feeling unjustly accused. Some even made fun of his minor daughter. People can be so unkind.

The Kavanaugh spectacle shows us who we are becoming as a nation. How ugly we can be; how low we can sink. The message from Washington this week was, "It is no longer out of step to do all you can to destroy a man's character, career and family simply because you disagree with him. Even Supreme Court Justice Ginsburg, one of the most liberal judges in history, criticized the Kavanaugh hearings as "a highly partisan show". Referring back to the days of her confirmation, she said, "The way it was was right. The way it is is wrong." I have much respect for this voice of reason, no matter how much we disagree on issues! Kavanaugh was confirmed, but there will be long-lasting repercussions from the attempted plot to destroy him. All in the name of partisanship.

Chelsea Clinton spoke out against this cruel cartoon.
I recognize partisanship is not new, nor is it exclusive to one party. Our national leaders over the last several years seem to have spent more time squabbling than finding ways to work together for the good of the people they represent. This has been frustrating for many Americans, including myself. For this reason and other reasons, I moved away from a tight party association in favor of considering Independence. I wish I could say the work my Democrat friends have done in having fruitful discussions over issues and showing kindness and human decency were enough...but the hate and sheer ugliness that has taken place since the Trump presidency has me running as far as I can get from the Democratic Party. Instead of reaching out to the people that didn't vote for them, Washington Democrats have done nothing but belittle and berate us. Not exactly a way to win friends and influence people. Then, when the Democrats had a chance to "play nice" and quietly let a Kavanaugh confirmation slip through...which would have given our exhausted nation a much-needed break...they balked as usual.

Even more bothersome are continuous directives from some party members intended to inflame more hostility, intimidation, and ugly behavior from their Far Left constituents.

Think I'm exaggerating? Consider the hateful remarks of Georgetown professor Carol Christine Fair, Look at [this] chorus of entitled white men justifying a serial rapist’s arrogated entitlement,” she wrote. “All of them deserve miserable deaths while feminists laugh as they take their last gasps. Bonus: we castrate their corpses and feed them to swine? Yes.”

If that doesn't disturb you, it probably should. Thank goodness many of our leaders are distance themselves from colleagues who incite fear tactics as a means to an end. Some claim they are only responding to the "hostility and verbal attacks of our current president". While he certainly is his own breed, I dare say if Mike Pence were president, the hostile political climate would be the same. (And I think you'd be hard pressed to find a more polite, gracious person.) The current political environment is so heated, we should have serious concerns about the safety of ALL of our national leaders, their staff and their families. We should also recognize that political extremism, no matter what the source, is a significant threat to our nation's freedom. Are we really ready for an America ruled by tyrants?

Georgetown Professor Christine Fair said
"entitled white men" should be killed and
"fed to swine". 
"No longer does your vote count. No longer do we respect the democratic process. We don't care what you want. We want what we want, and we will stop at nothing to get it."

Whether you are a moderate, left-leaning, right-leaning...a Republican, a Democrat, an Independent, or none of the above ~ this approach to governance should concern you. Consider what kind of nation you want, what kind of nation you hope to leave your children. Is this it?

If not, now is the time to respond decisively. Let your leaders know what you expect from them. Then, get off the couch and vote! Get out the vote. Don't leave it to others. Help the people you want to see in office get elected. And if you are praying person, pray for our nation. Prayer for unity. Pray for peace. Pray for changed hearts. Pray for the safety of our leaders and their loved ones. Pray for mercy. Pray for favor. Pray you will be the kind of person who you want others to be...even when it's hard. And while you are praying about all of this, be confident in a God who is bigger than our nation's political problems and more just than any human will ever be. He knows and sees all we don't. And in the end, he will get the last say.







Tuesday, September 18, 2018

Encourage One Another

Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all.  2 Corinthians 4:16-17
I used to laugh at my friend, Christy. Seriously. I did. She's 10 years younger than me, and often reminded me a younger version of myself. She worried about things I didn't worry about. Things that seemed light and momentary when I got older and oh-so-much-wiser.

"I've had a headache for 30 straight minutes. I'm worried I have a brain tumor. I'm thinking of calling the doctor and telling him I want an MRI."

"Cayson is only saying 12 words, but the chart at the pediatrician's office said he should be saying 15 by now. Do you think he's developmentally delayed?"

"I told Wes we need to get someone to help Erica with her cartwheel. Quick! She can't start cheer with a wobbly cartwheel."

OK. So I'm exaggerating a little. 😆  But the truth is--those things we worry about, those things we lose sleep over, those things that seem like HUGE trials to us this side of heaven are huge to us at the time. We all have different backgrounds, different tolerance levels and different personalities. We go through different stages of life and different periods of growth. It's all relative.

My problems are, no doubt, light and momentary to the cancer patient. Or the homeless person. Or to my sister and sister-in-law--both of whom experienced life-altering events this past year. Everyday, they wake up to face loss. (I couldn’t blame either one of them for wanting to toss a sandal at Paul if he was standing in front of her.)

But wherever life has us, we all carry burdens. And they are heavy. We know we are supposed to give our burdens to Jesus, but we often function as though we have spiritual amnesia. We forget. We need others to remind us. A lot.

My husband and I recently had dinner with a lovely couple who are strong believers. The young wife was practically waving her arms in our faces. "Yoo hoo! Hello!!! Is anybody listening? I need more support here!"

I appreciated her honesty and persistence. It isn't just a "nicety" to encourage other Christians in their walk; it's a command. We all have days we need to hear someone say, “Hey, I know it’s tough right now. Don’t give up. God is faithful. Remember what is says in his Word."

Paul wasn't minimizing our troubles when he called them light and momentary. He wasn't making light of suffering. He wasn't a stranger to persecution. Not only did he suffer a "thorn in the flesh", he suffered severe beatings, imprisonment and (most likely) a martyr's death. He understood grief.

What Paul was doing was reminding us of the bigger picture: trials serve a purpose; they make us more like Jesus. That perseverance we now lack? It is developed through hard times (James 1:3-4). And while God is conforming us us his image, he is also preparing our future. This world is not our home. The frustrations, the trouble, the pain we endure this side of heaven are temporary. But the joy awaiting us on the other side? It's better than the worst day we can imagine here.

"No eye has seen, no ear has heard, no heart has imagined what God has prepared for those who love him."  I Corinthians 2:9

Amen. What a promise!  Remind someone not to forget.

Thursday, August 9, 2018

A Different Road


I've traveled long
I've traveled hard
And stumbled many times along the way
I've bruised my knees a lot
And turned my back on God
And seen His mercy
I've been quick to judge
And slow to learn
So many times I've gotten in the way
I think I know so much
I've questioned God enough
But still He loves me
So now I'll walk a different road
I want to see Him there before I even go
I've run ahead and gone too slow
I've got to be still now
Wait upon His will now
This time,
It's gonna be His time
Don't want to live without
The peace that comes to me
When I am by His side
I've known the freedom there
Can't find it anywhere
But in Christ Jesus
So now I'll walk a different road
I want to see Him there before I even go
I've run ahead and gone too slow
I've got to be still now
Wait upon His will now
This time,
It's gonna be His time

A Different Road lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC Artist K. Troccoli


Sunday, April 1, 2018

The Sticky Note Project

Back in February, before the Florida shooting happened...before the first walkout or walkup was organized...one thoughtful 17-year-old was already working on a special project at Lakota East High School in Ohio. Valentine's Day was right around the corner, and my daughter, Abby, came home lamenting the fact that this year would probably be like the others: she probably would not be among the peers who received flowers, cards expressing undying love or (worst of all) candy grams that were distributed to students during the school day.

I remember having great fun with candy grams as a kid...and indeed it IS fun if you are on the receiving end. But if you aren't, it just kinda stinks. Must we remind high schoolers--who already struggle with peer pressure, self-image and fierce amounts of competition in and out of the classroom--that nobody thinks they are special enough to single out? (And, no...parents don't count. Nevertheless, my husband and I DO go to great lengths to remind our kids they are valued and loved on Valentine's Day!)

But this year was different. Lakota East scheduled "random act of kindness" week right around the holiday. Instead of thinking of herself, Abby started thinking of what she could do for others who might feel discouraged or alone on Valentine's Day. When inspiration hit, she contacted her principal to ask for permission to organize and implement the Sticky Note Project. She rallied church and school friends, who enthusiastically agree to help her, and even helped supply the notes.

On February 13th, my daughter and a small group of classmates stayed after school well into the evening, hand-writing notes of encouragement to each and every one of the 2000+ students at Lakota East High School. I imagine it was a beautiful sight to see the lockers the next morning, adorned with positive messages such as, "You matter", "You are beautiful", "You are loved"...

I am proud of my daughter for many things: that she is choosing to walk with Christ; that she is a good friend; that she is a hardworking and dedicated student; that she pushes herself out of her comfort zone; that she is wise beyond her years; that she’s a science wizard and a beautiful singer... but I've never been any more proud of her than I was that day.

No, you won't see this quiet effort on the evening news. You won't hear about it in the newspapers or read about it on the internet. But God worked through the hearts of humble and willing teenage girls to make a difference for someone-or many someones-that day. And at the core of it all, I believe  this is how lasting change happens...one heart at a time. ♡